1Ti 5:1  Rebuke not an elder, but intreat him as a father; and the younger men as brethren; 
1Ti 5:2  The elder women as mothers; the younger as sisters, with all purity. 
Subject                 Healthy Relationship
Theme                  How to have a healthy brother sister relationship
Proposition         Every Christian can have healthy relationships in the local church
Transition            By developing the depth you need through these roles
Point 1                  Your role
                Argue                    I Corinthians 12:25-26, Hebrews 10:24-25
                Illustrate              Jesus
                Apply                    Are you willing to be intentional?
Point 2                  Their role
                Argue                    I Corinthians 12:25-26, Hebrews 10:24-25
                Illustrate              Mary/Martha
                Apply                    Are you ready to trust