1Ti 5:1  Rebuke not an elder, but intreat him as a father; and the younger men as brethren; 
1Ti 5:2  The elder women as mothers; the younger as sisters, with all purity. 
Subject                                   Healthy Relationships
Theme                                    How to have a healthy young man/elder woman, young woman/elder man relationship
Proposition  Every Christian can have healthy relationships in the local church
Transition     By developing the depth you need in these relationships
Point 1                                    Young man treating the elder women as mothers
                         Argue                                      Young men should treat the elder women in the church like their own mother
                         Illustrate       Judges 4 Deborah
                          Apply                                      Do you have a right relationship with the elder women
Point 2                                    Young women treating the elder men as fathers
                         Argue                                      Young women should treat the elder men in the church like their own father
                         Illustrate       II Kings 4 Elisha and widow
                         Apply                                       Do you have a right relationship with the elder men in the local church?